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AFF helped bring us together. AFF helped tear us asunder.  

skyking412004 61M
1184 posts
10/22/2010 2:23 am

Last Read:
10/26/2010 9:20 pm

AFF helped bring us together. AFF helped tear us asunder.

_____The women in My House are but shadows to me now. They are already gone.

My Bonnie Wife...I thank you for the love and happiness that you did bring to my life; though you choose to bestow your love elsewhere now. I wish you many blessings and much happiness, as you continue on your path, without me.

I have said before "Take a chance".

I have been told that everything that has occurred in our lives, makes us who we are today and that we should be grateful for those occurrences.

I am still learning.

To the husbands and fiance' of the women I have dated, while they were supposed to be faithful to you.

I ask that you accept my humble apology.

I was a fool...concerned only with my own pleasures.


SugarShaft69 66M

10/22/2010 4:39 am

I wish I had words, but yours are perfect. Your words will run through my mind. I have often wondered about the hurt that is/can be caused by simply being here. A while ago I met an exciting woman that I felt was not being honest with me. I set up another profile just to see what she would do, and she bit. She flirted with me, became very interested in me and asked me to send her a joke. I sent her a pci of her sucking my cock. She then began to blog about how I was deceitful, can you imagine? She was angry at me for catching her. But this sin't about me, it's about you. I am sorry my friend and wish you the very best. You probably just saved me from being caught up in this deceit. Peace!


skyking412004 61M
5352 posts
10/22/2010 8:51 am

    Quoting  :

_____Yes. I have "grown" from this.

I had an opportunity to learn from a similar experience before this. I guess I'm a little slow.


skyking412004 61M
5352 posts
10/22/2010 8:51 am

    Quoting SugarShaft69:
    I wish I had words, but yours are perfect. Your words will run through my mind. I have often wondered about the hurt that is/can be caused by simply being here. A while ago I met an exciting woman that I felt was not being honest with me. I set up another profile just to see what she would do, and she bit. She flirted with me, became very interested in me and asked me to send her a joke. I sent her a pci of her sucking my cock. She then began to blog about how I was deceitful, can you imagine? She was angry at me for catching her. But this sin't about me, it's about you. I am sorry my friend and wish you the very best. You probably just saved me from being caught up in this deceit. Peace!
_____This makes me sound as if I was at the very least...uncaring, when it came to my "adventures" with unfaithful women, in the past.

I'm sure there are worse words that can be used to describe my actions. I never really gave much thought to "the other guy".


SugarShaft69 66M

10/22/2010 10:17 am

It wasn't meant to make you sound "uncaring"at all. I simply understand your pain, that I have only imagined, until now.


skyking412004 61M
5352 posts
10/22/2010 12:48 pm

    Quoting SugarShaft69:
    It wasn't meant to make you sound "uncaring"at all. I simply understand your pain, that I have only imagined, until now.
_____Thank you. I didn't think you meant to say that I was uncaring. When I look back though; I was. I mostly cared about what I could get. Of course was "attentive" to the woman I was with, each time. But I never really thought about their mates and how they might feel, or if I did, I probably thought that they must be terrible men; to drive Their Women away, like that.

I never gave a second thought to "Maybe it's the women." In olden days, when men were the sexual predators, it could probably be said, that it was almost always the guys fault. Now. We live in a wonderful New Age of Sexual Freedoms. Now. It's not, almost always...The Man. The Man, who is at home, day by day, doing what he is supposed to do...providing for His Family...while His Wife is out...with another Tom HairyDick.

In the past, I have been the Tom HairyDick. This time, I'm the Husband at home. Ironic. Isn't it. Live and learn; or repeat insane behaviors.


spoldrtn812 58F  
1061 posts
10/23/2010 12:13 am

I'm so sorry you are in pain!

Please, Sign my Guestbook Screw me


skyking412004 61M
5352 posts
10/23/2010 2:04 am

_____That's OK. There would be something wrong with me, if I wasn't. Maybe I'll get over it. We all do. It's a pretty good bet...if you are alive, you have been through at least one break up.

I do know one couple in their 30's. They were High School Sweethearts. They never dated anyone, before they met each. They didn't have sex until they were married. They seem to be happily married. Go figure. Darn Christians.


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