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Just saying what I feel..
Just saying what I feel.. Ok, I may get some mixed reactions and I will read them and answer them accordingly. I have posted several blogs with the point blank honest truth about what I want. It really is not that hard to try it if you actually have enough of a willingness to try. What is really so hard is to find a female, who is actually willing to meet for some fun, maybe some casual out of the bedroom fun ( Sometimes ) and have it be as casual as it would be as you think it should be? This place where this is being posted is primarily a sex based site, that is the point of this. We all have needs. Let now waste what time we have on earth by making it more difficult but making people jump through hoops to actually meet someone face to face.. If you don't ever see yourself actually meeting someone ( now that a lot of the people out here have had their shots ), then why are you here then? Why waste that time talking? Someone people spend weeks, months, even years on these sites to never meet? Also, a big issue I have is that people who actually talk, make it hard because of the fact that they are so stuck on seeing a picture, it becomes frustrating due to the fact that someone's looks should NOT be a deciding factor. Everyone has what they claim is their "type"... How about the type being where both people want the same thing actually stop the<b> games </font></b>and meet?? Yes, there is frustration here, but it is honest.. Ok let's see what type of responses happen.... |
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" the fact that someone's looks should NOT be a deciding factor. " No it shouldn't, but we're highly visual creatures. And it drives the hookup-site fantasy that appeals to so many. But not me *smirk*
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You call it looks. I call it appeal. Yes, it does matter. I am no gargoyle. Yet, sure I am not every man’s appeal. Just as some are not mine. I cant respond to no appeal. Even if he is physically hot, if he is a jerk, I cant go there. I bet most men cant get past some things in a woman. Unless drunk or drugged or paid.
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If you look into it you will see that this site is for other things besides sex. Those not meeting can be here. For cams and or cyber and or chat rooms. Looks are important to some. Don't have to like it but how it goes. Myself I was into kink. If I was meeting and the man wasn't why meet him when I would not get what I want? Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth. If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.
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If you want to meet people who don't care if they see what you look like ahead of time, there's adult bookstores and pay-to-play women. No real woman looking for sex for her pleasure is going to meet a man without seeing a picture of him first! Don't be foolish, all women know that if a man won't share a picture, there's something wrong with him!
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I KNEW the girls would love this one 😂. What you are basically saying is that you don't look at the mantelpiece when you're stoking the fire! Is it just about the pussy for you! You're not worried about looks because you won't be looking at her face? Sorry to hear about the stalker. That is bad news. But one bad experience should not dictate your life. If it does. Then she has won. I personally wouldn't meet without a face pic . There has to be an initial attraction.
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Thank you for your response. What I mean but it not being about looks is that everyone ( or at least a large percentage of others ) get so caught up with ( is she or he hot? ) . Should a persons looks dictate if you will meet them? For some, that is true.. I just do not believe that a person looks should be a deal breaker , that is all I saying.. as far as what you said about looking at her face.. Yes, that will happen depending on the position lol Plus, yes one could argue that it may lead me to vet someone different than I have before I met that crazy stalker. She hasn't won, I am just being a little more careful, that is all.. I understand that for some, an attraction has to be there, but it ( only to me ) should be the deal breaker... ..
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