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Finally! Got a blog out! I should write more...
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Finally! Got a blog out! I should write more... Maybe I'm not meant to be posting yet...it's been well over a month since I last posted anything and the minute I log on, I choke on my cup of coffee and end up spewing some over my work station! :S Hmm...okaay. After cleaning up, I can't even remember what I had wanted to ramble about to begin with. It's not like I've run out of stuff to ramble about. I just (well, not JUST just, about a few weeks now) got back from a fantastic holiday on my annual meet up with some very good friends. Aside from having, well most of our sexual fantasies fulfilled (that WAS the point for meeting up, after all), we actually got a lot more emotional than before. I guess all of us are older and have gone through much, and have come to appreciate what we, each of us and collectively, have. It was very nice. But alas, that holiday high has since waned, even my tan lines are disappearing. Two of them from the group are dropping by for a visit in a few weeks though, so that should be nice. Attended a colleague's wedding last evening (who gets married on a Tuesday evening?! But all things considered, it was a really nice and simple one. Mental note) and naturally, a host of us from work showed up. I flew solo (keeping the new bf out of my "work world" for now) and saw mr married there too. A fairly large group from the wedding went to the club that was right beside the hotel where the wedding was, with the bride and groom, for some after wedding drinks. It was getting late and I was getting ready to go when I get a text from mr married, who I thought had already left cos I didn't see him after the wedding dinner ended. I was actually in the ladies, texting the bf when mr married texted me. He asked if I was still there, where I was, and after I told him, asked if there was anyone in the ladies with me.  I liked where the line of questions was leading, but wasn't crazy about doing it in a tiny cubicle in a bathroom of a club. Turned out mr married was already in his car, so I told him I'd meet him back at the office. It was close to midnight by the time I hopped a cab back there. I didn't have my office key card with me so I couldn't get into the office, but I managed to take the stairs up to the gym, which was one floor below. I texted mr married and he met me there. He beeped us into the gym and we made straight for the showers. We got on like a couple of teenagers, and he didn't even remove my dress completely. I was in a halter top dress, so he undid my top and hiked up the bottom  It was hot, sweaty and coupled with the alcohol from earlier, I almost passed out. LOL We took a bit longer going a few rounds, and by the time we were getting ready to leave, it was 4am in the morning! We both panicked, grabbed our stuff, and sneaked back out. It was past 5am by the time i got home, showered and got into bed. Needless to say, I was late this morning coming into work. And over lunch, some colleagues were talking about finding a purple cotton thong in the ladies bathroom in gym this morning. My purple cotton thong, to be exact. I just played dumb and nodded mostly, trying not to smile  (I couldn't find it in the dark...it musta still been soaked...eeew...sorry )SO yeah, anyways. That has put me in a somewhat of a quandary. I've been struggling with this for awhile now. I like my existing lifestyle. I like my existing relationships that I have. It's a struggle to maintain them, and it definitely has its ups and downs. I also like what I'm developing with my new bf. The thing is, he (the bf) has given quite clear indication that he won't be okay with it. SOo....i guess for now, I'm keeping both worlds separate. This is gonna be...challenging. I've always wanted to keep things straight, as in tell those that I get involved in. But...ah well. Lets see how this plays out. |
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LOL just wondering if this is real?
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Sounds like someone had a bit of fun. You should enjoy yourself, and as much as you can. Glad you're back blogging.
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Welcome back to blogging! It's been a while now. Just a friendly reminder to exercise caution when trying to keep both worlds separate because you may not know what happens if one day you accidentally did something that will lead you to heaps of trouble. The faster you sort it out, the better you are off. As we age, we tend to forget what we did easily. All the best yea.
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