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My rant on girls my age and has the sanctitiy of sex diminished?
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My rant on girls my age and has the sanctitiy of sex diminished? Ok, this is starting to bug me. Ever girl i meet that is close to my age that i get to know ends up being incredibly stupid or immature. Like this one girl tells me her last ex-bf punched her in the face and choked her after having sex with her. WTF? How does she pick these guys? ive been friends with her for a while and we had a little fling before and she still likes me. I would almost date her but it seems like she has a whole string of Xs that are like this. So much so that i dont want anything to do with her cuz i dont want even want to be compared to those creeps. Another girl i liked starts arguements over anything and everything. She is fun to be around with because she is energetic but the second you do anything around her that she is not used to she flips out. She just cant control her emotions at all. It seems like the only girls that dont have issues that i meet end up being like 21 or older, and even then quite a bit of them still have a lot of issues. Not to mention, im starting to feel like the only girls i see are whorish. Many of them "hook up" with guys for one night or maybe date for a week and then have a new guy a few days later. On a level i can relate to them, but i feel like i should be dating for an extended amount of time before i have sex with someone. Otherwise it is strictly oral. I think sex is an important thing that should be saved for someone you truely care about, not necessarily a soul mate but an important person in ur life. Besides having sex with people you barely know is just not safe, i dont care if you wear protection or not im still against it. Am I the only one that feels this way? Has the sancitity of sex diminished? |
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6/20/2006 5:55 pm |
Yea, I find it funny that you comment on that. Being that I'm your age, I see a large majority of girls completely whoring around or settling for assholes. It's rather frustrating because they'll complain to you about these things and say they want things to change, but never really do anything about it and usually they'll just go back to dating these kinds of guys. I always hear guys claiming to be "nice guys" and they'll tell me they never get any of the nice girls. it usually has to do with a level of intrigue. if you play hard to get, but still flirt and show a good of amount of interest, then a girl is typically going to want to get to know you better. The girls you could care less about get your more uninterested side, which only makes them want you more. once you start to show them interest, they'll be more attracted.. ur at a loss for losing them unless you plan on being a complete asshole. you dont seem like one, so i doubt that'll happen. Girls that are our age, who have sex openly and without concern are at a stage of rebellion. Im not saying that they wont continue to do this because they could. Sex is nice, but i agree with you, it should be left for someone you care about and not just anyone you meet. i hope things are going better for you.
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8/8/2006 3:36 am |
I believe in the universal law of attraction. You get what you desire. Most of these women are willing to settle and that is not a good thing. No relationship is perfect from inception and I guess the reason we date is to see how the other person is little by little. The month long serial daters aren't ready to share or commit long-term. When you reach the point of years, it's time to close up shop and pick out curtains together. The problem is people are taking less time to get to know one another and unfortunately base their marital/relationship choice by sex. This is why divorce, break-ups, and mug punches are so prevalent. Quel Dommage. When love and skill work together, expect a masterpiece. -John Ruskin
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