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izzie1 52M
413 posts
9/25/2014 7:54 am

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NatalieWouldToo 49F
30 posts
10/7/2014 9:35 pm

    Quoting izzie1:
    I find it interesting that comments are centering around age more than they are around the cerebral palsy.
    Is it a non issue or too much to discuss?
I think the age difference is not a big deal. Past the teens, I mean...we're all adults. Bottom line..if it feels creepy, take a pass. The CP is a non-issue to me. If you like her and she likes you, and you two can communicate and interact, what difference does it make? It's part and parcel of who she is...something else for you to learn about and discover.


izzie1 52M
599 posts
10/1/2014 5:27 am

I find it interesting that comments are centering around age more than they are around the cerebral palsy.
Is it a non issue or too much to discuss?

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izzie1 52M
599 posts
9/30/2014 8:59 pm

    Quoting  :

Yeah... some cities like San Francisco, NYC, Denver all have great public transportation but other places... it's horrible. ..
I've not dated anybody in their 20s since I was in my 20s... I'm pretty settled on passing on this one too... there are a million other women out there... a twentysome is just not worth the drama accompanied by it...
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izzie1 52M
599 posts
9/25/2014 6:14 pm

    Quoting Horny_Holly:
    "I feel a little creepy for wanting to check out a 20 year old... "

    That's because it is

    You're over twice her age, it's just wrong. Only my opinion, of course. But I can say that at the age of 20 if a man of 42 asked me out? That would have creeped me right out. I really don't know anyone who wants to date and/or have sex with someone old enough to be their dad.

    And for the love of God don't try to offer this girl a ride, or you might end up getting arrested, and your next blog will be all about your new friend, Bubba, your new cell mate, hahaha.

    Seriously, it's creepy. Don't do it. Find someone more...age appropriate
I'm agreeing with you... and I think that the proponents of "age is just a number" are wrong in this case...

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Horny_Holly 43F
2767 posts
9/25/2014 5:52 pm

"I feel a little creepy for wanting to check out a 20 year old... "

That's because it is

You're over twice her age, it's just wrong. Only my opinion, of course. But I can say that at the age of 20 if a man of 42 asked me out? That would have creeped me right out. I really don't know anyone who wants to date and/or have sex with someone old enough to be their dad.

And for the love of God don't try to offer this girl a ride, or you might end up getting arrested, and your next blog will be all about your new friend, Bubba, your new cell mate, hahaha.

Seriously, it's creepy. Don't do it. Find someone more...age appropriate


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izzie1 52M
599 posts
9/25/2014 8:45 am

    Quoting NatalieWouldToo:
    Write her a note, like we did back in the day. Something like this, perhaps:

    "I think you're pretty. Would you like to have a cup of coffee with me? Check yes or no. W(rite)B(ack)S(oon)"

    Fold it in a nifty way. Then smile as you hand it to her.
Hmmmm... classic and classy... good suggestion...thank you

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NatalieWouldToo 49F
30 posts
9/25/2014 8:28 am

Write her a note, like we did back in the day. Something like this, perhaps:

"I think you're pretty. Would you like to have a cup of coffee with me? Check yes or no. W(rite)B(ack)S(oon)"

Fold it in a nifty way. Then smile as you hand it to her.


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