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izzie1 52M
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9/12/2014 9:14 am

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itzchic824 37F
2811 posts
9/12/2014 5:02 pm

As I said between those 2 extremes I chose the fit guy. But I look at a guy's body second. I look at his face first, so yes this would change my answer.

Nope didn't know either of these guys.

Since I don't know who Kevin Smith is, I am still going solely on pics and yes I would change my answer and choose the big guy. But like I said, I look at face first, body second.

Bonus - I don't want to sound like a gold digger but it definitely doesn't hurt. It's not a priority and I won't date a guy just cause he has money or not. But it's a plus, not a deciding factor though.

I sent an Angel to watch over you last night, it returned in a hurry. I asked why, it said "Angels can't watch porn." Thanks for fucking traumatizing my fucking Angel!

Don't bother trying to figure me out. Not even the little voices in my head understand me. It's pointless!


izzie1 replies on 9/12/2014 5:31 pm:
Great comment... it never hurts to discover someone has a little stashed away... now if you targeted him because of his money... that would be another story altogether. ..
Thanks for both the comments

NatalieWouldToo 49F
30 posts
9/12/2014 9:55 am

I don't know who these guys are, although BigDude looks kinda like Kevin Smith. Regardless, I don't like FitGuy's face as much as I do BigDude's. As I mentioned in the earlier post, I'm a face person, so the reveal changes my opinion, for sure. The face is where attraction lies for me; it's his face I'll connect with when we talk, not his abs. And anyway, FitGuy's expression pretty much screams..."I'm a dick!"

A beautiful body means exactly *nothing* if the inner person is ugly as homemade sin. I don't care how pretty a person is, if they suck as a human being, I dock them attractiveness points. And the converse is true; a sparkling, friendly personality can go a LONG way toward making an ordinary appearance seem extraordinary. Any smart, creative, funny guy who tries to get my attention will get it FAST, no matter his fitness level.

I don't give a fart in a high wind about how much money a guy makes. Income does not motivate me. My most meaningful relationships to date have been with guys who made a modest living or were actually pretty damned broke.


izzie1 replies on 9/12/2014 11:07 am:
That is certainly Kevin Smith. He's actually one of my fsvorite celebrities. I find him brilliant and honest to a fault. He's got it all. Great career that he loves, he's ridiculously proud of his daughter, loves his wife... has a bunch of irons in the fire (project-wise)... I'm a huge fan.
But...and there's always a but... if you asked him he'd tell you he was a tortured fat guy his entire life. Thatbit made him who he is and that's ok with him... but it would be so much easier if he wasn't a fat dude.
I have a great article that he wrote a couple of years ago with the whole SW Airlines thing. If you wanna read it email me and I'll send you the link.
Thanks for your comments on both blogs...they were awesome

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